“Whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit can never have forgiveness, but is guilty of an eternal sin.”
What should we make of Mark 3.29? This is as much a pastoral question as it is a theological one (not that the two can be cleanly separated). Troubled souls want to know, how a forgiving God can refuse forgiveness?
Recently, a high-school student asked me about this verse. Here is my response:
Dear Suzy Q,
Thank you for your excellent question about the so-called “unforgivable sin.” As you may know, this is a really popular topic right now as lots of people are taking “The Blasphemy Challenge” on the internet.
Your question is one that has bothered lots of people, but if we keep a few things in mind, it isn’t so troublesome:
First, in Mark 3.28 (just before this verse) Jesus shows how wide God’s love is. “People will be forgiven their sins and whatever…” What a great promise – mercy is available to all kinds of people who have done all kinds of really bad things! It is important to keep the “good bits” in mind when wrestling with the “bad bits.”
Second, Jesus often exaggerated. He used larger-than-life language to make a point; in literature this is called “hyperbole.” (See Luke 14.26 and Matthew 23:24). In the scripture about the unforgivable sin, he could be exaggerating to make a point. Perhaps the point is this: “God forgives all sins. The only sin that won’t be forgiven is the extreme sin of refusing to be forgiven.”
Third, what does it mean to “blaspheme”? Even if a person says the words, “I blaspheme the Holy Spirit,” have they actually committed the unforgivable sin? I’m not sure they have. First of all, blasphemy is more a way of life than a specific swear word like “Oh, my God.” (More about this later.) Secondly, they'd have to know what the Holy Spirit is. How can you reject what you do not understand? How can you deny what you haven’t experienced?
In my experience, and from seeing what is happening in the internet’s “Blasphemy Challenge,” most people making the bold claim that they deny Jesus and the Holy Spirit don’t actually know much about the Bible. Perhaps some of them have been hurt or turned-off by an ugly form of Christianity and that is what they are actually denying – not the Holy Spirit itself.
Fourth, we often think of sins as specific acts (taking a DVD without paying) specific feelings (bad thoughts), or specific language (swear words) but sin should be thought of as a life-style. To “sin” is to practice a way of life that is repeatedly, routinely distant from God.
Finally, what did Jesus actually mean in Mark 3.29? I think he is saying those who purposely, deliberately, and intentionally live away from God will never experience forgiveness; at least not until they stop deliberately attempting to escape God. When we say, “My heart beats for evil; no-God is my life plan” than we are incapable of receiving forgiveness.
Notice the emphasis on receiving. God forever extends the offer of forgiveness, but if our hands are shut into tight fists, we will have a difficult time accepting it. It is like trying to swim through concrete. When we open our hands, forgiveness is immediately available to us.
Hope this helps.
Your friend, Aaron